How to hire a Relationship Manager
Relationship managers at banks and wealth firms look after a set of clients. They manage client portfolios, sell them more financial products and keep high-value clients from leaving. RMs often bring in most of the revenue at private banks and lenders. They handle everything from investment plans to insurance sales and deposit renewals.
OFOmar Farouk
Relationship Manager · AI interview, 19 min
8.0 /10
- Asking about needs first9/10
“Before I suggest anything, I ask what the money is for and when they need it.” ▶ 03:10
- Product depth8/10
- Keeping clients7/10
- Knowing the rules8/10
Free · Email code to start · Uses your mic · Up to 5 minutes
What does RM stand for?
RM stands for Relationship Manager.
A Relationship Manager (RM) looks after a set of clients at a bank, lender, insurer or wealth firm. They learn each client's financial position and suggest products that fit it. They grow what each client does with the firm over time. And they stop clients from moving their money to a competitor. An RM does more than close one deal. The same person handles the first investment, the renewal three years later and the complaint in between.
- Function
- Banking, wealth, and financial services sales
- Level
- Mid-level individual contributor with an assigned client book
- Reports to
- Branch Manager, Cluster Head, or Head of Wealth
- Measured on
- Book growth, cross-sell ratio, client retention, revenue per client
- Next step
- Senior RM, Branch Manager, or private banking
The hiring challenge
RM candidates often claim AUM numbers and cross-sell ratios they cannot back up. What you need to see is how they act with a client. Do they ask about the client's needs in a set order? Or do they push whichever product pays the biggest bonus this quarter? Knowing the rules for each product is a must. An RM who sells a market-linked insurance plan as a fixed-return product creates a compliance risk. It is not real revenue. Your interview must test whether they put the client first when there is pressure to sell. Reciting product features is not enough.
What to look for in a Relationship Manager
Four traits set strong RMs apart from people who just push products. Asking about needs first: do they ask about the client's goals, risk appetite and cash needs before suggesting a product? Product depth: can they explain an actively managed fund versus an index fund without reading a brochure? Or term life versus whole life insurance? Keeping clients: what do they do when a client threatens to move money to another bank? Knowing the rules: do they understand KYC norms, suitability duties, and the securities and insurance rules for the products they sell?
Also check three more things. Can they talk with clients in the client's preferred language? Many wealthy clients prefer their first language for money talks. Do they know your CRM and core banking system, such as Finacle, Flexcube or Temenos? And do they review portfolios on a schedule? The best RMs review client portfolios every quarter without being asked. Average ones only call when they have a product to push.
Notice how they talk about clients. Strong candidates describe specific client situations. Examples are a retirement planning talk, a tax-saving tip or a hard talk during a market fall. Weak candidates talk in general terms about "building trust" and give no real examples.
Common mistakes when hiring Relationship Managers
Believing AUM claims without checking them. Every RM candidate quotes a large book. Ask them to break it down. How many clients? What mix of products? What was the retention rate? Strong candidates know their book inside out. Weak candidates give round numbers and change the subject.
Testing product knowledge but not suitability judgment. Picture an RM who knows every product but suggests a high-risk equity fund to a retired schoolteacher. That RM is a danger. Give candidates a client profile and ask what they would suggest and why. The reasoning matters more than the product they pick.
Ignoring compliance. Securities and insurance regulators hand out real, costly fines for mis-selling. Ask the candidate what they do when a client wants a product that does not fit their risk profile. "I sell it anyway because the client asked" is the wrong answer.
Key skills for a Relationship Manager
- Client needs analysis
- Product knowledge (funds, insurance, deposits, bonds)
- Cross-selling and upselling
- Client retention and relationship depth
- Regulatory and compliance awareness (suitability, KYC)
- Portfolio review and rebalancing
- Vernacular client communication
- CRM and core banking proficiency
What a great interview looks like
"A salaried client has $15,000 to invest and no other investments. They ask what to do. Walk them through what you would suggest."
"Tell me about a time you kept a client who was about to move their money to a competitor. What did you do?"
"A 60-year-old client with a low risk appetite asks about equity mutual funds. Which of these answers is best?"
"Your branch has a month-end insurance target. The client in front of you does not need insurance. What do you do?"
"Explain the difference between term life and whole life insurance to me as if I know nothing about insurance."
You can use these questions in Goodfit as they are, or edit the questions and the scoring for your team.
Recommended interview process
- 1
Round 1: AI Voice Interview15 to 20 min
A needs roleplay with a client profile, product knowledge questions and a retention scenario. The scorecard covers how well they ask about needs and how well they know the rules.
- 2
Round 2: Portfolio Review Exercise30 min
The candidate gets a sample client portfolio. They find the risks, suggest how to rebalance and explain why as if talking to the client.
- 3
Round 3: Branch Head Interview30 min
Talk about cross-selling, keeping clients and culture fit. Only for candidates who passed Rounds 1 and 2.
In Goodfit, the AI interview runs the first round for every applicant. Skill tests, coding tests and roleplays can run in Goodfit too. Your team reads the scorecards and joins for the later conversations.
FAQ
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What does a Relationship Manager do?
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